There is a pretty sure fire way you can tell if you are creating the issues you have with your horse…
Take a deep breath and think of how your horse makes you feel when the issue arises.
2. Feel the feeling that you feel in your body when the you think of the issue. Have you felt that feeling in a situation in your life other than with your horse?
3. What do you say to yourself about your horse when he has the issue? Do you ever call someone or something else that same anywhere in your life?
If you answer yes to either 2 or 3 (or both) that means that if you see or feel the same thing away from your horse, your horse is not causing it. It is within you and you are taking it to various situations where you are seeing it.
Knowing this is ht greatest thing because it gives us the power to change our whole relationship with your horse without having to do a single piece of training!
The reason we see multiple triggers is that this feeling is sourced in the past - when you were a child and you watched someone in an emotional charged state react to a situaiton.
You adopted this emotionally charged state as an appropriate repose to the situation and now when you see this situation you “re-act” the emotionally charged way you learned as a child.
BIG PROBLEM - IT DOES NOT SERVE YOU OR ANYONE AROUND YOU.
But I have good news - it is so easy to do and the results are immediate and if done right, the next time you are in the triggering situation, there is no trigger, just peace, joy and a sense of wonderment as you recall how you would have reacted in the past.
Today take 3 steps -
Identify a current trigger - theorise.
2. Identify the original situation that caused the charge
3. Integrate the original situation.
It really is so easy and painless. In fact it feels really good and is so unlike traditional therapy where hours of talking often only makes us feel worse - this instantly makes us feel better - in mind and body.
That is why I developed my mood optimisation and pain elimination technique that I use with people and their animals.
If you are intrigued, but, like I used to, think it might also be a load of nonsense, I have more good news!
I offer a guarantee that if you are not feeling better by the end of the session than you were at the beginning I will refund your booking fee. Can’t say fairer than that and I am giving you a present here too.
Now that I have taken money out of the equation - what is the thing holding you back? Because your freedom lies conquering that.
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